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Kristine Keane, Psy.D.
As a neuropsychologist, I have seen firsthand the impact of excessive screen time on cognitive function and mental health. The term ‘brain rot’ has become a popular way to describe the mental sluggishness, decreased attention span, and cognitive fatigue that many experience after prolonged digital engagement. While not a clinical diagnosis, this phenomenon reflects real neurological effects that can shape the way we think, learn, and process information in an increasingly digital world.
The brain is a dynamic organ, constantly adapting to our environment and habits. In a world where screens dominate both work and leisure, our cognitive processes are evolving in ways we are only beginning to understand.
1. Attention and Focus Are Under Siege
The constant stream of notifications, rapid-fire content, and endless scrolling is training the brain to seek short bursts of stimulation rather than deep focus. As a result, many individuals struggle with sustained attention, finding it difficult to engage in complex tasks that require extended concentration. This shift can have profound implications for learning, productivity, and even interpersonal relationships.
2. Digital Consumption and Memory Weakness
With information available at the tap of a screen, the brain is relying more on external sources rather than internal recall. This phenomenon, sometimes called ‘digital amnesia,’ affects the way we retain and retrieve information. Instead of deeply encoding knowledge, we skim and move on, reducing long-term memory consolidation and making it harder to engage in critical thinking.
3. Sleep Disruptions and Cognitive Fog
Screen exposure, particularly before bedtime, disrupts the brain’s natural sleep-wake cycle. Poor sleep leads to decreased cognitive function, impaired emotional regulation, and increased mental fatigue. Over time, this contributes to the feeling of ‘brain rot’—a fogginess that makes it difficult to function at full cognitive capacity.
4. The Mental Health Consequences
Social media and digital interactions are shaping emotional well-being in ways we cannot ignore. Anxiety, depression, and stress are increasingly linked to screen overuse, particularly in younger populations. The constant comparison, sensory overload, and pressure to be constantly connected are straining the brain’s ability to regulate emotions effectively.
The reality is that screens are not inherently harmful—what matters is how we use them. The goal is to create a balanced relationship with technology that prioritizes cognitive health rather than diminishing it.
✔ Train Your Brain for Focus – Designate screen-free periods to rebuild sustained attention and deep work capacity.
✔ Reclaim Memory and Learning – Engage with information more actively, through writing, discussion, and deliberate recall, rather than passive consumption.
✔ Protect Sleep and Recovery – Establish a digital curfew to allow the brain to naturally wind down and prepare for quality rest.
✔ Cultivate Mindful Consumption – Be intentional about screen use, choosing content that enriches rather than overwhelms.
While technology is an essential part of modern life, its impact on brain health depends on how we engage with it. Rather than avoiding screens altogether, the goal should be to create a healthier digital balance that allows us to stay connected, informed, and mentally resilient.
Finding balance in a digital world is more important than ever. By making small, intentional changes to how we use technology, we can protect our cognitive health, improve focus, and foster well-being. Let’s take control of our screen time and create healthier habits—our brains will thank us for it.
Dr. Kristine Keane, a clinical and sports neuropsychologist, is widely recognized for her profound expertise in brain health. Drawing on extensive experience, she is passionately committed to enhancing cognitive and emotional well-being.
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